A lovely letter to share with you... 


When I read this letter that my client shared with me, I am touched and impressed. I am reassured that what we do every day is valuable and meaningful... Prearrangement is not about death. It is all about love, caring, protection for our loved ones.


“Dearest dad,
This is the first year without you at Father’s day. When everyone is preparing their father’s day dinner and gifts, I feel heartache in my heart. As I remember all our precious moments together, tears come out from my eyes quietly. Dad, I miss you!
I can’t express how much you love your family. Your gentleness, patience, your encouragement while I was suffering in the dark, you care and protect us. You are my role model, my life coach. You always give us surprise!
Dad, I couldn’t believe you had even planned your own final arrangement, chose your resting place and paid for your own funeral service! You had taken away all our financial burden and stress. I could not imagine what would have happened if nothing was arranged in advance!!  You gave us very clear guidelines of your wish so we could follow and honor you. We know we did the right things!
Dad, thank you for everything you did to us, I know you are now resting in peace.
Love you forever and forever!
Your beloved daughter, Lee “

We can protect our family today by taking good care of ourselves, physically and mentally. We can help reduce the heartache of making tough decisions at a time when our family members are overwhelmed and grieving. Take these 4 simple steps:
REFLECT on what is the most important in our life;
RECORD our wishes to make sure our loved ones know exactly what we want;
SECURE our decisions financially so that we are not leaving the burden on them;
SHARE everything we arranged so they know all the decisions have been made to protect them.
If you have touching stories that you’d like to share with me or if you’d like to know how you can protect your family, please contact me at alice.tsung@dignitymemorial.com



ALICE TSUNG B.S.Sc.

Preplanning Professional 
604-7620390
alice.tsung@dignitymemorial.com










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