Before goodbye 驪歌站前

什麼是戴孝？ 戴孝 ( Mourning)   是一種中國傳統文化的表達方式，它代表對逝去親人的哀悼和尊重。戴孝是在儒家思想影響下發展起來的，講求敬老尊賢、重視家庭關愛，其歷史可以追溯到漢代。 戴孝的方式是通過一系列的行為和穿著來表達哀悼，其中最明顯的就是穿著孝服。孝服是指孝子或孝女在父母、祖父母、配偶等親人去世後，按照一定規範穿著的服飾。孝服的款式和顏色不同，通常以黑色為主，象徵著悲傷和哀思。孝服的穿著期限也有不同，一般為3年、1年或100天，根據親屬關係和儀式形式而有所區別。 此外，戴孝還有其他的表達方式，比如剃頭、不穿鞋襪、不進行娛樂活動等。這些行為的目的都是為了表達哀悼之情，尊重逝者。 在傳統文化中，戴孝被視為一種禮儀和文化，強調了家庭關愛和敬老尊賢的價值觀。雖然現代社會中，很多人已經不再穿著孝服，但仍然保留著以黑色絲帶或臂帶表達對親人的哀悼和尊重之情。 作為基督徒，也有重要的表達方式。《聖經》中有許多關於哀悼和尊重逝者的經文，如「耶和華賜福給虔誠的人，以公義為冠冕加在他們頭上。」（箴言10:6）、「凡悲哀的人，耶和華必賜給他們裡面的平安」（約翰福音14:27）。基督徒通常會在逝者去世後進行安息禮或追悼會等宗教儀式，並且穿著黑色的衣服來表達哀悼之情。 秦陸蕙莉    Alice Tsung B.S.Sc. Preplanning Advisor, Certified Celebrant Direct Line: 604-7620390 alicew.tsung@gmail.com   https://www.linkedin.com/in/alice-tsung-781aa853/ https://www.facebook.com/groups/176867840041394

  Why do I need a cemetery space? Death is an inevitable part of life, and planning for it is something that we all need to consider at some point. One of the decisions that people often face is whether or not to purchase a cemetery space. While it may seem like a difficult topic, owning the right of use of a cemetery space can provide peace of mind for both you and your loved ones. A cemetery space refers to a plot of land in a cemetery that is designated for a burial or interment. This can take the form of a traditional grave or a mausoleum, depending on personal preference and cultural or religious traditions. By owning the right of use of a cemetery space, you are essentially purchasing the exclusive rights to use that space for a burial or interment. One of the most common reasons people choose to purchase cemetery space is for the sake of tradition. For many cultures and religions, burial in a cemetery is considered to be a respectful and dignified way to honor the deceased. ...

What is the different a grave plot and a lawn crypt? When it comes to burial options, there are a variety of choices available to individuals and families. Two common options are a grave plot and a lawn crypt. While both of these choices involve interring the body in a final resting place, they differ in a few key ways. A grave plot is a traditional option where the body is buried in the ground in a casket or burial vault. This plot of land is designated specifically for burial and is marked with a headstone or marker to identify the individual buried there. Grave plots can be purchased in advance or at the time of need, and they are often sold in designated sections or plots within a cemetery. In contrast, a lawn crypt is a type of burial vault that is installed below ground level in a lawn area of a cemetery. It consists of a concrete vault that is designed to hold one or more caskets or cremation urns. Lawn crypts are installed in rows, and they can be used for single or multiple i...

Witness Cremation Witness cremation refers to the practice of allowing family members or close friends to be present during the cremation of a deceased loved one. In a witness cremation, individuals are given the opportunity to say goodbye to their loved one in a more intimate and personal way. During a witness cremation, family members or friends are typically allowed to observe the cremation process from a designated viewing area near the cremation chamber. Depending on the facility, they may be allowed to witness the placement of the casket or container into the cremation chamber and the start of the cremation process. The exact protocol for a witness cremation can vary depending on the crematorium or funeral home, and the wishes of the deceased and their family. Some facilities may allow family members to participate in the preparation of the body or to perform rituals or prayers before the cremation begins. Witness cremation is a relatively new trend that has gained popularity in...

Dear Mom, As I sit down to write this letter, tears fill my eyes and my heart aches knowing that you are slowly slipping away from me. But in this moment, I want to express to you the love and gratitude that I feel for you. You have been the guiding light in my life, showing me the way forward and being my rock in moments of darkness. You have taught me so much, from the simplest things like tying my shoelaces to the biggest life lessons that have helped shape me into the person I am today. Your love has been unconditional, and you have always put the needs of our family before your own. You have sacrificed so much for us, and I will always be grateful for your unwavering support and guidance. As you prepare to embark on your final journey, I want you to know that I will always cherish the memories we have shared. From the family trips we took to Korea and Singapore, to the quiet moments we spent together, every moment spent with you is precious to me. I will miss you terribly, but I k...

  為什麼要見證火葬 ？  見證火葬   是指在親人或朋友進行火化後，親眼目睹其火化過程。這個選擇在不同文化和宗教中可能具有不同的意義和 目的。 以下是幾個可能的原因： 給予最後的告別： 對於某些人來說，見證火葬是為了給予逝者最後的告別。這樣可以讓親友們有機會看到他們摯愛的人進入另一個世界，這對於緩解悲痛和幫助人們進入悼念階段是很有幫助的。 符合文化或宗教信仰 ：在某些文化或宗教中，見證火葬是一個常見的傳統或宗教儀式。例如，印度教中的「河神教」，就有習俗讓親屬親眼目睹逝者在恆河中火化的過程。 接受現實： 對某些人來說，見證火葬可以幫助他們接受逝者已經離開了這個世界的現實。這種經歷可能會讓人們感到沉重和傷心，但同時也可以幫助他們更好地處理這段困難的時期。 確認身份 ：有時候，見證火葬也可以用來確認身份。這種情況通常發生在身份不明或身份存在疑問的情況下。透過見證火葬，親友們可以確認逝者的身份，並確保其得到合適的安置和悼念。 事實上, 是否出席見證火葬 禮，純屬每個家庭、每個人的決定， 沒有必然，沒有對或錯，只要擎愛親人得到安息，家人安心， 哀慟的心得到醫治。 秦陸蕙莉    Alice Tsung B.S.Sc. Preplanning Advisor, Certified Celebrant Direct Line: 604-7620390 alicew.tsung@gmail.com   https://www.linkedin.com/in/alice-tsung-781aa853/ https://www.facebook.com/groups/176867840041394

Can I bury my loved one in my backyard?  The loss of a loved one is always a difficult and emotional time, and decisions about what to do with their remains can be particularly challenging. One question that arises for some people is whether it is legal to bury their loved one in their own backyard in British Columbia. The short answer is that it is not legal to bury a human body on private property in BC. The provincial government regulates the disposal of human remains, and requires that they be handled in specific ways to protect public health and the environment. The reasons for this regulation are clear: human remains can pose a risk to public health if not handled properly, and can also have an impact on the environment. Burial on private property can also create complications if the property is ever sold or inherited by others. Instead of backyard burial, there are several options available for the respectful and legal handling of human remains in BC. These options include ...